Boyy problem :( just any cute advice or opinion im a teenager?

i reallly like this guy. he's fun to hang around with and he's really cool and everything.at first we were like good friends but then both of us (without saying so) knew that we wanted more. so we would like sit alone and talk and we'd always greet each other. he always made cute comments like o you have beautiful eyes and he'd joke around being like o the guys check you out cuz your hot and everything. we never officially went out but in our youth group (where we met) we would spend time just the both of us. a few weeks ago he asked ';since its the holidays, we should hang out sometime.'; i dont know what was wrong with me but i was like ';oh i dont know well see.if i have the time because god knows whats gonna happen to me'; he thinks i have no guy friends(or boyfriends) so i assume he doesnt think im going out but im inexperienced and just chickened out. for the last few weeks he doesnt greet me and on msn and stuff he never talks to me. i want to get him back without looking desperateBoyy problem :( just any cute advice or opinion im a teenager?
he probably took you shrugging that invite off a sign that you dont like him..





try being the one that starts the conversation instead of leaving it to him.. just to know that youre some what interested.





you can make yourself look available, with out looking desperate





my biggest piece of advice is to not talk to him on msn. talk in person.. or at least over the phone.





ask him what he likes to do and then be like no way, that would be so much fun, can you teach me??


(like if its baseball or guitar)


then hold him to it. it would be a fun little hang out.. casual, gives you the chance to flirt with him, and there wont be any awkward silences if you cant think of anything to say because youll be doing something instead of just sitting there





and do a little something extra like bring him cookies :]


he'll like it.





after you put yourself out there a little bit, act less interested so he can chase you a little.. but casually tell him things like ';wow that shirt looks cute on you'; or ';did you get a hair cut?.. huh, well your hair looks really good today';





then when he starts to sound like he's interested again and youre pretty sure he likes you start to act like you like him back so he wont loose interestBoyy problem :( just any cute advice or opinion im a teenager?
Just say ';Hi'; to him every once in a while on msn. Then he will gradually start to talk to you again and you will be in the same position as before. As for chickening out at the last minute, you were probably just nervous. If you hang out more the nerves will go away.
If he's not initiating conversation, you do it. For instance, if you see him online on MSN then just say ';Hey. How you're doing? How's your holidays?';


Just start a casual conversation. Don't push him into it.
you should prob just tell him da truth or tht you were nervous because if u leave it for too long he might get more n more angry. he probably think tht u ditched him and feel annoyed at you for tht so tell him you were just nervous n he should forgive u... i would.
he probably felt rejected..the best thing to do is try to talk to him and ask him why he hasnt been talking to you. chances are he'll give you a straight answer ....





good luck!!
try to make an effort to be friendly and initiate conversation. if he still doesnt pick up on that and return the attention, then he's not worth it.
well tell him how you feel fast. The more you don't say anything the less of a chance you'll have to get him....
then start talking to him, make some moves :)