students). We got together on the first day of university and have been together for 8 months now. The thing is next year, we will be moving out of student
accomodation and into different houses. We agreed it would be best not to live together next year, although living together 8 months has been fine.
It's been good for us because although we got serious very quickly, we have seen each in every possible state; tired, angry, moody, out the shower, no makeup, pmsy (me)
etc etc and at times we have had pretty bad fights because of restricted space but we have always come through. We have gotten to know each other very well in a short
amount of time and actually loved living together, despite the occasional fight etc. Moving in together INSTANTLY (pretty much the first day we met...however, this was PURELY
coincidental) would break up MANY couples who would split after the first sign of a problem.
However, we did agree that living in different houses next year would be a good idea. It's strange because it feels like our relationship is going 'backwards' now - couples usually
don't live together instantly, that comes a few years later (depending). So now we are actually going back a step it feels - however, I'm kinda glad because it means now we will have to go
out on real 'dates' if we want to meet up, as we'll actually have to meet up somewhere to see each other (we never went on dates because we lived together..)! This is a pretty 'unconventional'
relationship I guess you could say, but I was just wondering if living apart is a good or bad idea? We are both going to miss each other terribly...just little things like sleeping in the same bed e
everynight, cooking dinner together, going food shopping together, looking after each other when we are sick, making cups of tea for each other, having someone just down the corridor to hug and kiss at anytime
etc.....all those things are such a part of my life now, it's going to feel so weird to be living in a house without him!!! Will living apart after living together for almost a year be a good change and a good idea?
I don't want it to make us grow apart.......do you think it will?Relationship problem....need you guys advice please!?
Whoa,slow down some!The only way it will fall apart is if you,or both of you allow it to...You seem to have a mutual trust between you so that alone should substain a relationship just fine,even while living apart...
I fail to see the benefits of living apart though since your relationship can handle it,as you already know from experience...but hey,having date nights,and late phone calls can work too until you both decide to share a house or apt. together,or at least until you can use the word ';love''; easily and freely when it comes to each other and this relationship...If it is meant to be time will tell...good luck!Relationship problem....need you guys advice please!?
Kdot,
I think it will make your relationship stronger. Besides who's to say you can't stay over his place and vice versa. Good luck.. :)
You guys might get a little jealous or paranoid to NOT know who's in and out of eachothers houses.. thats something to consider
well it might. =( why are you guys not gunna live together anymore? talk with him about it before u guys make a decision!
Well I say that this situation is really going to show the strengths or weaknesses of the relationship. I'm surprised you guys aren't going to live together, but to each his own. A backwards relationship is not always bad. Heck I had a boyfriend once who told me he loved me, kissed me, and then asked me to be his girlfriend. Strange things happen these days lol. Anyways, this will really show the strong points of your relationship. From the sounds of it, you guys are going to miss each other like crazy and I bet you 9 times out of 10 you guys will stay at each other's houses for the night. If you guys are truly as close as it seems, nothing bad will happen to your relationship. You guys might even find out living apart doesn't satisfy you and end up living together, who knows? It is just a chance you guys are going to take. With time you will know if it was a good idea or not.
im not sure. my parents lived in a house 6 years together! before getting married, i know thats a little early for you??? i think??
but living with each other takes it a step further into reality, but then again living in different house..if you can keep your love strong, now that is powerful
i wish you luck
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hmm, well actually all those things you listed is like what every couple hopes for! i think that you guys could still live in the house and still have dates. i think its really important. but maybe you rushed it? anyways im not going to preach you about the past. but i think your relationship will also grow!
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