Friend problem I need some advice!!?

Alright well I am 16, my best friend Staci is 18, and her boyfriend Nate is 19....





Anyways Nate thinks me and him are best friends but really I can't stand him. I don't know why either, he is really nice his family is really nice but he just annoys me.





Well Nathan and Staci ALWAYS invite me places. When I do go it is wierd, I am like the 3rd wheel or something. I think they only bring me along to make fun of me beacuse otherwise they would be bored.





Then I am like the go between between Nate and Staci. Staci dosen't have internet and I will be talking to Nate online and he will be like lets go bowling firday, will you call staci and ask her. I am like call her yourself shes your gf hes like will you please call her. So I call her and she has to ask and everything and then nate is always bugging me and hes like so what are our plans... I DK call staci yourself.





Then ok I have myspace open and he will IM me on there, I am like I can't talk, then he kept bugging me so I had to go offline for the IM, then he messages me and is like we can talk on Yahoo! messenger if you want I am like UGH so I didn't even sign on Yahoo! messenger. And then he messages me on this other site. Like ok I obviously don't want to talk to you right now leave me alone.





And then there s the stupid jokes. I will be talking to him and I will be like ok so what time are you picking us up, he will be like I can't I broke my arm, am like oh im sorry, he will be like jk.





Ok so I was telling my dad all of this and my dad says I should just tell him I don't want to talk to him anymore and that I am tired of being a go between and being used as there joke. That sounds like a really mean thing to do though =( and I don't want to be mean. So what should I do? Thanks!!Friend problem I need some advice!!?
Like Billy said, bring someone else along. And if you want, just break off. Tell Nate AND Staci that you don't want to be their thrid wheel, and that you're tired of being the go between. It's not so much that it's mean, but you can do it in a polite way. Like saying, ';Staci, I think Nate is nice and all, but I'm tired of being a third wheel on your dates. I'm really tired of being made fun of...'; And just go on from there. Don't just say, ';I hate that I'm yours and Nate's go between, and I'm sick and tired of being made fun of!'; Nothing like that. Just ask Staci to see if Nate will cool off, and just have her call him. And if he keeps bothering you, say ';I'm not Staci's babysitter, go find her yourself.'; If Staci gets mad, tell her how you've been feeling. If she's really your best friend, I'm sure she'd understand.Friend problem I need some advice!!?
You should bring a guy next time they invite you somewhere. Nate will back off to give you two room and you won't feel like a third wheel, problem solved!





-Billy
Shouldn't this be in the ';Family relationship'; section?
Well, try to bring a date next time. Don;t go with them everytme. And tell Nate to layoff. IDK,start ignoring him.
Really i would help but the story line is to long.
yeah, shouldn't this also be in the friend section?
鈥ell you can tell your friend that you are tired of being the 3rd wheel of their relationship and tell nate that you don't want to be the go between girl for HIS relationship.


鈥f your sick of the jokes that they always make on you when you're all hanging out tell them that you have had enough of them making fun of you.


鈥onestly, i wouldnt do what your dad suggested because it might bring up some drama with your best friend since he is her boyfriend. sadly, it is a very common thing.





hopefully i helped, if only a little bit.


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