Girl problem, just need some advice please.?

So I asked this girl out. She was so excited, told me she was so happy i asked her and that it meant a lot to her. Made her feel special.





Then the day of the date rolled around and she completely played me first by keeping my hopes up allllll the way till the last minute and then ignoring me. I sent 2 texts and called her 3 times (The last two times I just called to leave a voicemail, but kept getting disconnected, so I had to call again). I told her that I didn't like what she did and that she should explain to me why. We do know each other for a while now and things have changed a lot between us for the better and she had been leaving me hints all over the place that she wanted me.





She got issues, and for some unknown reasons it just keeps reminding me of myself, like I got similar issues, and I know when something like this happens, im usually pretty scared and stuff.





So its today now and still no response. I don't want to be stuck on this, but I feel that if I don't END it, I will keep trying to figure WHY she did this, and WHY she won't talk to me. I mean we became pretty damn close, its not like im some regular dude that just came out of nowhere, we built up trust between each other since we both have severe trust issues and stuff.





Ok so now let me tell you this. When we first met and when neither of us were interested in each other i brought up the topic of love and she told me about the one guy she truly fell in love with.





She told me how she was the biggest ***** to him in the world. She said she didn't want to give him a chance because she didn't trust him. She ignored him, she flipped out on him, acted really bitchy with him. She said that he was sooo annoying that after all the persistence she fell in love with him and gave him a chance.





My question is, should I be persistent or should I keep quiet.





The way I see it is that I got nothing to loose really, im on break from college and just sitting around.





If nothing happens for a week ill move on, but i need advice, should i be persistent but not too annoying?Girl problem, just need some advice please.?
Hey, mate. Been there, seen that.





The key is, I think, is to give her the opposite love story. She wants you to be like this guy, but didn't they break up? So you don't want to be that guy.





What I did was to cut off communicate with her. Totally. Even blocked her messages until she talked with me directly.





I didn't do anything for 5 weeks. Then one night when it was a storm, I heard my roomate let someone in. Next thing, I feel a touch at my leg in the dark. Then I hear, ';I was scared of the thunder and I needed to talk to you.'; No joke.





Stayed with her for 2 years till I had to move on. If I were older I would have married her. She was beautiful and was always getting her way with stuff like your girl friend is doing with the guys. By not getting her way, I really got her attention. But it was a long hard 5 weeks.





Anyways just a thought. At least then you wouldn't have to put up with the annoy stuff she hopes to get out of you. And then what if she leads you on?





Give her the opposite of what she thinks you will do. Especially if you think, she likes you.Girl problem, just need some advice please.?
Cancel her.





If they want to play games, they aren't worth the headache.
yer the one who knows her, what do you think?


And why aren't you mad?
theres better fishes in the sea...now..go fish