Then the day of the date rolled around and she completely played me first by keeping my hopes up allllll the way till the last minute and then ignoring me. I sent 2 texts and called her 3 times (The last two times I just called to leave a voicemail, but kept getting disconnected, so I had to call again). I told her that I didn't like what she did and that she should explain to me why. We do know each other for a while now and things have changed a lot between us for the better and she had been leaving me hints all over the place that she wanted me.
She got issues, and for some unknown reasons it just keeps reminding me of myself, like I got similar issues, and I know when something like this happens, im usually pretty scared and stuff.
So its today now and still no response. I don't want to be stuck on this, but I feel that if I don't END it, I will keep trying to figure WHY she did this, and WHY she won't talk to me. I mean we became pretty damn close, its not like im some regular dude that just came out of nowhere, we built up trust between each other since we both have severe trust issues and stuff.
Should I text her this?
';is this where we part ways and right before christmas? after all this... why the sudden change? i had high hopes, and still do... you dont have to be scared or embarassed, just honest with me. i think your really amazing, but you couldn't care less about that... i always treated you with respect so i know i didnt do anything. i suppose i got my answer ill leave you be.';
Is that good?Girl problem, just need some advice please.?
Don't text or call anymore period !!! It will only annoy her. If it's meant to be,she'll contact you with a good explanation I'm sure.
Maybe she is afraid dating you could ruin the friendship
Hang in there and good luck!!!Girl problem, just need some advice please.?
you should talk to her and ask her why she did this if she just shrugs end it you deserve someone that adores instead of ignores you
Get Back To Me
Good Luck
That sounds good. I sure hope everything works out. Good Luck, and keep your chin up because things will get better, maybe not with her but someone who is more appreciative of you.
good boy
send her that
it sounds good =)
%26amp; good luck, dont get your heart broken
That's great. If I were you, I'd go up to her and ask her what's going on.
u can do better
the first part of the message is very mature and nice but when it comes to
';so i know i didnt do anything. i suppose i got my answer ill leave you be';
kind of mean
you should say
'; i always treated you with respect and i was hoping you would respect me back by telling me what you think';
in my opinion of course
hope this helps
Sounds like she is playing a game. My rule is if they play games, play harder. It's annoying but entertaining in the least. Ignore her. DO NOT MAKE ANY ATTEMPT TO CONTACT HER! Give it a few days to a week and she will get in touch with you. Do not respond right away and act like it was no big deal! Have Fun! If you don't want to play games I suggest you court another gal!
She just does not want you. Thats the real deal. I was talking to a guy who treated me right, respected me, but I admit I was just bored and he was spending money on me. I didn't love him, though I didn't mind being around him. I know that I led him on. It was a good feeling to me knowing that someone wanted me and I had them in the palm of my hand. I just knew that I would never, ever be with this guy for the rest of my life. Some people come in your life just for a moment, and for a reason. Not everyone is supposed to stay. He calls every other day to this day and I don't pick up the phone. Call me a *****, but it's funny. I've been hurt by plenty guys. They do it all the time. It's our turn.
Every time you contact her you are doing it with the belief and the desire that she will reply, even when you make comments like...I'll leave you be. Then you will be disappointed when she doesn't. So why torture yourself. You have contacted her several times already. She has made no effort to answer you. She has your number. She knows where you live. I'm sure she has your IM too. Why give her another opportunity to reject you again. If you did nothing wrong, accept that she has issues, (that are not your problem) and let her go. If and when she is ready to behave like a decent human being she will give you the courtesy of an explanation. Sometimes you just have to get closure by yourself but stop wasting one more minute of your time on someone that obviously has not respect for you at all. You deserve better. She deserves nothing from you.
its kinda odd that she didn't reply to you. but maybe an emergency happened at the last minute and she couldn't make it. but since your close friends, just confront her and tell her how you feel. im a girl and it would be a bit harsh to get a text saying what you wrote. talk to her face to face and tell her exactly whats on your mind.
It depends whether you're scared that she's not talking to you or upset because she won't make love to you, but understand she has trust issues too. Wait for her and see it through if you love her. You could send her that text just minus the ';I'll leave you be'; bit just to see how she feels or if something happened that made her not respond. If she answers with a ';I don't like you'; or just doesn't answer you for a couple solid weeks then break it off with her.
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