Girl i'm not officially with.. but likes me?
Alright here's the deal. I met someone like a month ago or so. Her and I started talking, exchanged numbers, went out.
We liked eachother, we kissed for like 45 minutes in my car, held hands, talked about our past relationships..
She says i am a really great guy, im nice and all of that.
The next day she had a change of heart or something, cuz she told me her and i are just friends (i didnt think we were more. but it just seemed like she wanted to be sure of that i guess?)
Anyways, we havn't kissed or held hands since, and that was like 2 weeks ago since we last did all that stuff..
She told me she wanted to develop a friendship between us first. I told her that was fine.. Her reason was because she just got out of a relationship. As far as i'm concerned that guy was an idiot to her, a jerk..
Well there are other guys shes speaking to, i just dont like being just another guy.. I like her alot, but i just don't know what to do?
Help? We've had some serious talks about stuff. I got angry with her one time because she was acting strange with me, so i basically threw things in her face and she started crying. Saying that she cares about me, but why doesn't she care for me as much to be WITH me.
I think it's just utter bullshiit.
Forgot to mention she gets angry when i don't open the door for her, or when i don't pay for her when we go out. So i've been doing all that, but it's making me wonder why? What's the point? Friends don't do that, do they?
I used to take her to work, and pick her up.. We would see eachother all the time. We fought like we were in a relationship.. But it's beginning to be sickening... I'm into her, but im beginning to back off because i don't wanna be just an option...Girl problem.. I really need advice!!?
you have to realize if she really cares...
just don't be in sight for some time... so you can make sure if she really needs you..
you say you pick her up to work, and gets angry when you don't act as a gentleman...
if you are just friends u don't have to pay her and open the door for her...
so stop doing these stuff.. and act like you don't know that she will get angry... act so cool
when you do all this... think about her responsesGirl problem.. I really need advice!!?
give her an ultimatum , either she gets with you or you give up on her!
right now you're wrapped around her finger and she controls you all of the time.
dont let her do that!
oh and start talking to other girls... she'll get sick jealous.
Damn you, monkey lover!
Sounds like she's either playing you, or doesn't know her own mind. Move on.
i really don't know.. she sounds confusing
she may be using you
i think you should just try and talk about it with her
like be straight up and firm
i wanna be more than just friends bcuz i really like you
thats it see of it works
she must know already that you like her bcuz you kissed lol
so try it
okay here is the truth im just like the girl your talking about.. but i dont make guys pay for my stuff she only wants to be friends with you because she wants to keep on talking to other guys thats pretty obviuos... and she tells you she cares about you because she knows if she does that you will stick around and be there.. us girls like this type.. sorry if im steriotyping we fear being alone.. so we love to talk to as many guys as we can.. the crying is difficult to explain because we do get involved with you.. obviously we cry cuz we fear you leaving.. email me and we can talk more.. =o]
You first want to ask yourself if she's worth the hassle. It almost seems like you two are jumping the gun just a bit and rushed into something you weren't ready for.
You expect things from her and she's got some serious baggage. There's no real way that you can get that to work unless you get marriage counseling and I doubt that you two are. You should consider being ONLY be friends right now until you two can learn to sort out your problems in a rational manner than just blowing up in each others faces. The best way to do that is to learn to communicate with each other. That's a virtue that many couples have lost nowadays and the results have led to catastrophic ends. Back to what I originally said, is she worth the time and effort you're willing to put into it ?
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