PROBLEM WITH EX, NEED ADVICE?

I know this is a long read, so I'll give lots of points for the best answer!





I am a 17 year old girl, my ex and I broke up 6 months ago.. Although I've been in a lot of relationships for my age, ours was the deepest and most romantic relationship I've been in so far. We were totally devoted to each other and I guess you could say we were the couple everyone wanted to be. But there was lots of jealousy because LOTS of girls wanted him and LOTS of guys wanted me.(not to sound conceited) Thus, it ended very dramatically and everyone knew about it, so we stopped talking for 5 months. During that time, both of us continued to check up on each other.(on myspace and through mutual friends) He got a new girlfriend, who he makes call him by his last name?? and he uses the same nicknames that WE made up for each other on her..%26amp; I got a new boyfriend but I broke up with him after a few weeks because I realized I wasn't ready for a relationship. He still is dating his girlfriend, but he's playing her, he kisses and touches other girls in public and talks about it to all his friends, which he DIDN'T do with me. Believe me I know, he might have cheated when he went out of town, but I honestly don't think he did. He was utterly smitten with me. Anyhow, so we finally talked again, and we both apologized for everything that happened between us. But I figured he still wanted to pretend like we weren't talking in public to keep up his ';image';(He doesn't want his boys to think I have him on check or that he's sensitive, which he really is). Nevertheless I would notice him getting closer to me when we sat near each other, and he would stare at me like he was waiting for me to say something and then turn away looking hurt. After that, he's stopped looking at me at all.


Now hes back to being an asshole to me, and he claims he's ';in love'; with his girlfriend..who he's playing. Anyways, at first I thought I had the upper hand, but I'm afraid he still has a piece of my heart because I can't seem to stop thinking about him which is the worst feeling in the world.


My question is, WHAT is/was he trying to do?


%26amp; what should I do in response?PROBLEM WITH EX, NEED ADVICE?
Sounds like he's playing YOU.


He knows that you still have feelings for him, so he's taking that as an advantage. He's playing with your emotions, overall. He's probably thinking ';Oh I can do what I want and STILL have a girl to go to if I mess everything up.'; Which definitely isn't cool.





So, the question is? What do you do? You play back.


Try distancing yourself from him as if you're moving on. He'll see that you're slipping away and he'll realize that he'd better stop his games before you get away.


Try going out, and let him see you happy. I'm sure he'll figure out soon ;)PROBLEM WITH EX, NEED ADVICE?
Morning ;)





Well first of all i am going to say what you have heard a


MILLION TIMES and that is that you are to young to be Stressing over some boy, because at that age that is exactly what they are.





However it is harder because you love him and he has your Heart Right?? well it's always going to be that way because like you said you shared something special with him that you had not experienced or shared with anyone else. Well all you can really do is give it time i know that is such basic advice but the truth is that only time will tell, it will tell if he really loves you %26amp; cares it will tell if he has moved on for good or just to play around which he is doing %26amp; will come back because he knows he has you right there waiting? remember that is up to you.As much as you want to know the answers to all the why's/what's, i am afraid that is a mystery but don't worry because when you meet that special man that was made just for you you will than know why nothing else ever worked out or made sense. Sometimes it takes a couple to get to the right one, for now focus on positive things %26amp; stay busy, never pass on a date because you don't know what you might miss out on ;) go out with your girlfriends as much as you can %26amp; just have fun! Remember if He is not the One there will be plenty more to choose from throughout the years.





Listen to Keyshia Cole or beyonce's new music espec. if i were a boy %26amp; single ladies to help you along the way. ;)





Sorry for the novel





Hope i Helped a bit..





-Jess