Guy problem! We kissed. Any advice helps!?

Ok well PLEASE help me out, nobody seems to have advice, sorry its kinda long be here it goes.





Ok so, me and my exremely good friends Jon, have been friends for about 2 years now. And when i first met him i really like him, and i mean really! Well anywho, he goes out with this other girl so i was just like, ugh this wont go anywhere, so i gave up. But latelt (for the past 4 months or so) him and his girlfriend have bee having some serious issues. Breaking up and then getting back together etc. Well, he went over to her house because he wanted her back, but she said she just wanted a break, (And i live right by this girl right?) So he calls me and is like, he want to talk to me? I kinda need it. So im walking around with him in our neighborhood and then we find these hills behind our house and we just sit there and talk for a litelt bit. And then I noticed that hes acting all shy and keeps avoiding looking at me straight in the eye. Which is not him. So i asked him, ';Is there i reason you keep avoiding my face?'; and he said, because, i cant control myself. And of course, i am confused. And im like What? And he says, I cant control my feelings, i really like you, and i want to kiss you. So at first im kinda in shock (because i dont like him at this point) and its quiet and the music on his phone is playing and all of the sudden i just leaned over and kissed him. And then we kinda just started making out and...yeah. And then im like Wow, ok what happens next. I mean we cant go out, his GF would flip, and were great friends and we dont want to ruin it. But at the same time, neither of use regret it and we both like eachother somewhat (I dont know how to explain about how we feel about eachother) and hes not sure what will happen and neither am I.





PLEASE PLEASE help me :(


Sorry it was so long.Guy problem! We kissed. Any advice helps!?
Well this is tough because I don't know him personally, or you, or what he's probably thinking. There's 2 possibilites- 1 is that he's in need of a rebound and he's simply using you as his rebound girl because he felt like he'd be able to kiss you and get the comfort that he needed. The other possibility, is that he really does like you and has strong feelings for you. As a very close friend, you get to know someone really well and you grow attracted to them in many ways. It keeps growing as you spend more time with the person. Maybe he realizes now that you're there for him all along even through all his issues with his gf, and he sees just how reliable and great of a girl you are. Maybe he does want to go further with it with you, but doesn't know how to get that by his gf (or ex, whatever she is lol). The only way to find out is just to say (if you do indeed have feelings for him) that you do have feelings for him. If he does too, he'll respond well since he knows now that he safely has you and you guys are good to go. He could really like you, but he's just worried that you don't like him back as much as he likes you, and he doesn't want to lose both his gf AND you in the process, you know?





Hope that helped! And thanks for answering mine btwGuy problem! We kissed. Any advice helps!?
if hes a good friend u will get ur chance if not then move on.








if its long who cares at least ur questions getting anserd right?
His gf took a break so y'all were aloud to kiss and it's her fault fer him kissin ya
talk about it and follow how u feel