I think my friend has a problem.please check I need more advice

ok.first of all I go to school in summer.2 days a week.and we live in Iran and what I'm going to talk about is so rare here.I have this classmate,she sits beside me in our summer classes.and lately she has shown lots of odd behaviors of which I'm SO afraid.my mom and some of my other friends have asked me several times before if she's a lesbian and I'm so doubtful about this because:


she send me lots of messages which I should normally expect of a boy.


she hugs me always when the school is finished.


the other girl who used to sit beside her for 2 years has left her.that's why she sits beside me.


she loves TATU.which I hate.


so what do you think I should do?our headmaster at school is so careful about choosing students and most of us are really studious.


before she sat beside me I always thought she was a very good person.so you think I should runaway from her,before I hear any odd suggestions.


by the way she gets sad so easily.so I don't wanna tell her something and regret it later.





I was thinking of talking to the girl who used to sit beside her before.ask her why she has left her.maybe she can help me.


but the problem is they were too close and they still talk to each other in a friendly way.so I thought the girl might tell her how I'm feeling about her and she will get furious


I think my friend has a problem.please check I need more advice
Maybe she's one of those touchy feely kind of girls. Ask her some questions of how she feels about boys, or if she likes anyone.Ask her questions that will give you enough evidence on whether or not she is lesbian or not before you jump to these conclusions. It doesn't matter what kind of music she listens to has nothing to do with whether or not she is lesbian. Maybe the reason the other girl doesn't spend as much time with her is because she's assumiing things too, but hasn't really tried to find out. If she isn't worth all the investigations, then you answered your own question.


Good luck on the situationI think my friend has a problem.please check I need more advice
talk to the girl that use to sit next to her . then if she doesnt know talk to your frined . and find out or talk to her legal guardian . or your school teacher .
Well ur not sure if she is lesbain but it all adds up.. But u shouldn't go into conclusions about her unless u know for sure... but I would say just sit next to her and talk to her... and if she starts getting all touchy and stuff tell her wht u feel. About the situation.. All u have to do is talk and if she still freaks u out and stuff then tell her tht ur freaking her out but calmly ... then if she still goes at it then request like u change ur seat or change class.. Sometimes asking a guardian isn't really required b.c. It creates some tension... so yeah just talk to her and understand her side