Attraction problem... i need much advice!?

i'm a freshman in college, petite and slim. i'm not conceited nor am i shallow. sure i like attractive guys but looks arent everything. looks capture my attention initially but personality makes me like a guy. confidence is a must.





i've been told im attractive by guys with ';cute'; being the most common. however, guys dont seem to have interest in me past my looks. the guys i end up liking arent the best looking to others, but to me they are very good looking. their personality and unique style captures my attention and i feel like they understand me emotionally. i'm not a drama filled girl and i'm quite different than most girls.





this one guy that i liked for quite some time told me ';im not good enough for you.'; and i was suprised. the guys that i liked the most told me the exact same thing and a ';you deserve better.'; but the thing is, i dont want better! i want them! i feel badly about this and now i wonder if i can even really attract a guy past my looks.





any advice?Attraction problem... i need much advice!?
Wow many girls would kill to have their pick of the liter.


Probably doing intellectual stuff (clubs, library, etc.) will help you meet a guy that likes you for what's on the inside.Attraction problem... i need much advice!?
You're a very special person and you should feel proud that so many guys really like you. Just be honest with them. Tell them that you are just like them. Just go out and have fun. Just relax.