I need advice about my friend's problem?

My friend Sally Johnson who lives in Vancouver goes with her family to Cultas lake every summer in a cabin near Chillawack in the Fraser Valley. And in the cabin next to her family a lady in her 70's has cancer. She is ok, she is having treament. The lady's name is Helen and Sally wants to look up Helen's name up in the phone book. She lives somewhere in the fraser valley but if did that her mother found out she be peeved. She only knows Helen somewhat and so do the Johnsons. Sally is an adult she's 27 and she works as a nurse in hospital and she works with cancer patients in Vancouver and she wants to phone Helen to help her. She's asking my advice. I'm telling her that other people are taking care of Helen.


Sally just also wants to be a friend to Helen as well. What should she do?I need advice about my friend's problem?
i think that your right she should let the people who are caring for her do their job. especally if she dont know her that well she could be resentful and say who sent you here and why are you so curious about my condition.. its a sensitve subject and i would leave it alone..I need advice about my friend's problem?
She should just mind her own business
By all means she should help her, i mean if she think she can then nothing should hold her back
She should listen to her heart. She's an adult, has an education and knows what she is doing. If her heart is telling her to help then she should help. There may be something she sees that other doctors or nurses don't see and from there be able to help Helen live a little longer or get in better shape.





To get her address all you have to do is contact the post office and tell them the situation. From there she could send a care package or some flowers and leave a card with Sally's phone number and address on it. Even if Helen doesn't know Sally, the nice gesture of someone leaving flowers will be appreciated by her and then if Helen wants Sally to help, she can contact her then.
sounds simple


the local grocery store and post office will know her.


Both will help if you ask them.





Send items to comfort her. No one really wants to suffer alone, no matter what they say.
send flowers to her cabin and leave her name and phone # so helen can contact her as well. she may not want the intrusion