And, now he goes crazy when I talk to other guys.
I also have a friend, who says a lot of sweet things to me.
But he's got a reputition for playing girls. And, I dont wanna have to deal with that. Now he says that he''s sick of the fact that I wont go out with him and that he doesnt like me anymore. Another friend wants me to move in w. him once I turn 18...Major problem leaving me confused....... advice needed?
All of then are the wrong guys for you. They are wanting to use you.Major problem leaving me confused....... advice needed?
i think you have some feeling of insecurity inside you. first thing to do before moving out is to feel self confidence to 'deal' with the guys and any other situation in your life. also its important to have some financial security. if you feel a guy doesn'ty deserve your friedship, just dump him. self restect and trust for each other is the most important thing if you are going to have any meaningful realtionships.
relax..think about each of these boys, and youll realize that none of them are right for you. dont rush to move in to a guys house once you turn 18. slow down, live life. dont settle down yet. go to school, get a job, be a kid. wats the rush???
What's the rush..your just a kid..enjoy your life and don't make any commitments to anyone but yourself..Learn what it is like to live on your own before you move in with any guy..
The guy with the reputation will say anything and will sound sweet till he gets what he wants..
the guys who claims to want you, didn't wait long enough for you and asked someone else to move in with him..
neither one sounds like a prize..don't let your ego get the best of you...Forget them both and don;t be swayed by sweet nothings..live your life for yourself..your much too young to be trapped into some drama..
Frankly, not one of them seems to be fighting very hard to be with you. And that's not a bad thing - none of them sounds like he's worth being taken seriously. Really - Do you really believe all that jive they're telling you?
A woman should learn to stand on her own two feet before moving in with a guy. Tying yourself down at the age of 18 makes absolutely no sense at all.
Unless you're on the verge of being thrown out of your parents' house and have to decide which of these guys to live with, this is not a major problem.
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