Thursday, December 31, 2009

Problem I need some advice.?

Well there is this boy that i dated for about a week. Well he broke up with me cause we were going to fast. and started talking to another girl. Yeah i got mad about it but i didnt knoe what to say. So he called me like 3 days to tak to me and so we did. Then that night we walk around and talk. He told me he couldnt do this he couldnt make to girl this happey and the same thime. So that confused me even more. Well he told me he had feelings for me and i told him i still did to. SO the nxt day he gets with the other girl yeah it hurt but what can i do. Well the thing is what should i do just leave them alone or should i try talking to him.





But the thing is this girl is starting drama and am not for all that bull crap. So please help me understand.Problem I need some advice.?
Personally I would leave him alone.


It's hard enough learning what is good for us in relationships.


It's him not you and you can't help him with his choices.


Of course it would confuse you,he is bouncing his confusion off on you.





He sounds like he is flip flopping.It most likely is a development stage and he has to grow through this time.


I myself would not want to be the one he is learning this with.








It's hard to keep thing seperate like her drama and him talking to you about her.


Go for walks with you and saying he likes you.





He is being honest he is just where he is in his emotional and physical relationship development. Silly how they come to us when they are confused. We like them but they are not for us when going through this time.





Back off and perhaps at some point he will grow out of this.


Some men never do.





Talking to him will not change his self discovery.Problem I need some advice.?
geez leave him alone. he's an idiot, and he's getting a thrill from messing with your head.
i would stop talking to him. he wonts this gurl it looks like to me but not hurt you. Drama is for lil kids. dont wait around for this guy
id forget about him harder said than done but its gotta be done. he is prob saying the same thing to the other bird. he is trying to keep u both sweet so he has a chance with the 2 of you. In all honesty if you watch him with the other bird why would u wanna be with someone like that, id have the right ump if a girl was playing me like that. move on, u dont need a fool like that. I mean fair enough he is trying to play the 2 of you but he cant, hes not clever enough, he even told you he cant keep you both happy! how blatent is that! he will end up with neither of you!
The question actually is why do you care? This isn't like it was a long term relationship that ended. This is not someone you spent a large part of your life with. If want answers from him your not going to get the closure you want. What it will do is make it seem like you are stuck on the guy and a stalker. The drama the girl is starting is affecting you how? Your not dating this person and if you have to interact with these people on a daily basis or in school treat them as you would any other person your not really acquainted with and move on. good luck.
you need to talk to him and be like me or her dont bother even talking to her shes not worth your time
Girl, get your pimp hand out. He's a player. Forget about him until he dumps this other girl, and move on!!





PS: drama is stupid
hes sounds confused and now he seems to be confusing you so my advice is to leave him alone cuz thats how the drama will start between you the guy and the girl

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