Boyfriend problem . Please help . All advice.?

K. We were supposed to go and see Nightmare before Christmas 3D. Today . But yesterday he told me he had to pick up his sister. He promised me for sure he'll take me to see it twice it that same day . I never ask for much , but to take me out sometimes to spend time with him. But He always breaks up our plans. He is not cheating . I ask his friend why he was busy , they said to pick up his sister every friday . Anyways . Now he want's us to hunting with my dad. I always let him do what he want's . But I just want to go see the movie that is only playing for 2 days . I want to be mad at him , but I cant. I get depress . Everytime he makes plans , I always get high hopes and he get breaks them , i get really depress. I do so much for him. I try to be a great girlfriend to him. I want to tell him , but he always ask me what 's wrong . I say nothing and I hold it in. Is it wrong for me to feel that way. What should I do . Just hunting , movie , or try to do both. Please help.Boyfriend problem . Please help . All advice.?
first off don't go out without another guy friend because that will only turn out bad. My boyfriend and I had similar problems. I wanted to do things with him and the plans would change and I would be disappointed about it, but I always keep it inside. Doing so our dates were partially ruined because I was upset about our previous broken plans and I will to cry about it. He always asked what was the matter and my answer was like yours ';nothing';. After months of the same thing happening over and over I wanted to break up with him but i didn't (you know what I mean). But we had that much needed talk about how I think he use to let me down when I didn't ask for much but to spend time with him. He express that I couldn't blame him for doing it over and over because I never told him what my problem was with him so he can fix it. Which was TRUE. With that all said y'all just have to talk about it. If you don't let him know he can't fix it and you will continue to feel hurt about it. Trust me I know. Needless to say we both are better at communicating with each other and I believe that out relationship got better and we are closer to each otherBoyfriend problem . Please help . All advice.?
I agree...you have to tell him how you feel-relationships are based on communication, plus I'm sure he wants you to be honest and open with him. Guys don't really think too much about that stuff, so he probably thinks it's no big deal. Tell him how much it'd mean to you to see this movie with him and that it's only out for two days. Then mention how you'd like to go hunting with your dad but you could do that anytime so pick a day next week to do so. Don't get depressed! Guys just don't care about little things like that as much as girls. I'm sure once you say that he'll be glad to, and if that's not his cup of tea, let him know what you do for him and that it'd still be fun and you guys should comprimise on where you go so you both get to enjoy yourselves! Just don't hold your emotions in, it hurts yourself in the long run!
It sounds like he's a great guy. He likes to help other family members and be with other family doing things. That's great!


What you need to do is ask him if you could have at least one day or 2 where it's just you and him and no one else. Tell him you need some one on one attention.


Sometimes guys don't get that being alone is what you want. Also, you haven't said anything about it, so he probably thinks you were okay with it.


So, the next time he asks if anything is wrong, tell him how you feel, he'll understand. He might be trying to please you doing all this activity too.
Well....it seems that you may need to...let it burn.You seem to...how can i put this...need a lot of...attention.And he seems to not be able to...might i say...fullfill your needs..Sooooo.as a result of this...predicament...i think you should not be a groupie and keep it moving.
girl you need to stop holding stuff in...that will kill you! you defenitley need to talk to him about how this makes you feel. communication in a relationship is jsut as important as trust...you will just become more depressed and things will only get worse if you never let him know the deal! its not fair to break plans back to back and then when you can actually go do it,,make other plans to hunt or whatever! if you guys hardly ever do anything together than he needs to understnad that you need that, so talk to him,,,its your only option...good luck!!!
Tell Him Honestly Whats Bothering You!!!


Tell Him That You'd Really Like To See That Movie Before It Stops Showing And that Youd Like Both The Movie And The Hunting (If That Is The Case) You love Him Soo Much You'd Actually Want To Do Both... tell him That You'd like to spend More Time Together...Ask Him To Tell You Whats On His Scedule So You Can Know How To Plan Things If You Are Still Feeling Bad About Mentioning it Directly Buy Him A Nice Day Planner And Put A Note Inside Along The lines Plan Yourself...Or Something That Should Imply You Need to Make Time For Everything...
TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL!!! The only way he is going to know is if you tell him. I used to be the same way with my b/f but then I just got tired of it and I started telling him that he ALWAYS changes our plans and if he didnt want to do anything with me why suggest it hell why are you with me. Ask him that see why he doesnt respect you enough to follow through with your plans. I did and now we talk when something is bothering and Im engaged to be married :-) See so speaking up isnt that bad. It may actually help him realize how you feel
girl stop acting like a baby and start doing things by yourself or with your friends....the reason why he keeps breaking plans with you is b/c you allow him to do this...and ppl only get away with what they are allowed to get away with....you seem to be the clingy type not to sound harsh but you need to stop waiting around for him to do things with you....especially after he's broken plans with you at the last minute....that is so rude and inconsiderate of him....he plays with you and you let him....and babygirl never say your man is not cheating....how do you know that? are you trying to convince yourself into thinking that he's not....your not with him 24/7 so you don't know what he's doing when he's away from you....i think your kind of skeptical yourself or else you wouldnt have brought it up...you need to stop doing so much for him b/c the more you try to please him...the less he is going to appreciate it why?? b/c he's taking you for granted and taking advantage of you....he don't care about breaking plans with you b/c he knows he can get away with it, and until you do something about it...he will continue do so....but it's all up to you if you want to sit around and play games with him.... is it really worth it? i think not but your the one who has to make that decision.
Tell him how you feel and let him know he needs to make more time for you.
If your boyfriend is sensitive enough to know something is wrong and asks you, then you should tell him! There is no way your relationship can grow into something beautiful and long term if you won't communicate. Word it in a way that expresses your feelings (feelings can never be wrong), and doesn't cut him down. It is quite likely he doesn't even understand the problem. It really isn't about the movie (you could always go with a girl friend), it's about being let down when you are looking forward to being with HIM.





It can be quite exasperating for men when their woman won't communicate. TALK GIRL, TALK !!!





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You ask for advice, yet you have nothing but excuses... but, but, but.... ';My frinds are in school or busy . So I cant go with them.';


That wasn't really the point now was it? Go by yourself then!!!





Maybe you're not ready for a boyfriend yet.
telll him how you really feel
You have to communicate your feelings with him... maybe he doesn't know he is hurting you.. and if he knows and still does it, then he doesn't care for you as much as you care for him.. it is time to start speaking your mind and getting your relationship on a even playing field.
You need to lose your mind and blow all out on him. Let him know you respect his situation but you wont stand for being always placed as last on his list. Work up a good temper then tell him you want to talk. Start calmly and if he does it again. BLOW!. Whats the use of sitting around crying? Is it helping you? Is it dealing with the situation? Com'on, stop blubbering, start talking.