I have a problem. I need some advice....Mmkay? <3?

Well, my friend and I are having major issues.


Such as, I can't stand her.


I mean, she'd my best friend, and I love her to death, but she's just SO immature, it's not ethnical.


She'd a saddist, meaning she's ';emo';...


Feh...


Any ideas?I have a problem. I need some advice....Mmkay? %26lt;3?
Let her know how you feel. Tell her that you feel like shes bringing you down as a person because of certain things she does. Let her know that you still want to be friends and that you ';love her to death,'; but things she does just bother you. Even best friends get sick of eachother at some point. You'll never 100% always agree on everything. You're different people with different personalities. Just have some space between the two of you. Don't just abandone her, maybe there's a reason why shes ';emo,'; maybe somethings bothering her. But you can always find other people to hang out, you dont' have to completely remove her from your life.I have a problem. I need some advice....Mmkay? %26lt;3?
Wow..


you call yourself a friend and mature?





Quit pointing fingers.





Why don't you relax for a sec and maybe evaluate how you have been acting.





If shes acting emo then why don't you figure out what's wrong with her.





ethnical?


wow








Spend time apart of talk to her..
okay does she cut herself with a razor? if not then dont call her an emo! gosh tooooo many things that effend emos......





move on ..... dump her
MOVE ON DON'T BABYSIT!!!
ask her what her damn problem is.
aww yeah fights w friends SUCK


actually im going thru EXACTLY wat ur goin thru...like im just sick and fed up w one of my friends but i still love them deep down inside and would neverrr wanna lose them.


idk exactly wat the problems are ur having w her but the best hting to do is to confront her about it.
Well, i've experianced this alot in my life..





If I were in your shoes I'd find out what's wrong and then tell her that you can only offer the advise that you'd give yourself. And that to accept it or not to is her choice.





Give her the advice, and if she chooses not to accept it and still wants to live in a ';saddist or emo'; state, then tell her how it's affecting you. That as much as you love her you can't be around it too much because of how it affects you. That your gonna need space from her sometimes.





If she is your friend at all she will understand and things will work out one way or another. Jah bless.
First of all being ';Sadist'; (which is spelled with one D I might add) is not someone who is emo! Sadist means ';someone who obtains pleasure from inflicting pain or OTHERS';


- www.dictionary.com





and second it sounds like you have more issues.


Its like you are best friends but you're being WAY too over dramatic, you either like her or you dont which I think you probably do but let stupid stuff like this go, its not worth ruining a friendship over.


If she is being immature then talk to her...it seems like you lack communication, best friends are honest and thats the truth.





Grow up, good luck!
when she's having her ***** fits its obviously bring you down with her and you don't want that...i wouldn't totally just ditch her but try to understand what's she's going thru and if she continues just move on
Dump her quickly, before she brings you down with her.
i have the issue with one of my friends. i just try to keep my distance with her, she is way too immature for me to be hanging out with her all the time, so i just talk to her every now and then. i try to surround my self with positive people, i dont like drama
If you can't stand her then she's not a good choice for your best friend.





Find you a new friend and let her find her new friend at the playground.
give her a razor blade and see if she solves your problems for you
dont worry about it. lol


if she's immature than its her problem,then move on.


you prolly dont need to be her friend that badly.
well um ask her why is she so sad did anyone die , check who's shes hanging out with if she's in a bad group of people or if it's just peer peasure
If she calls and wants to hang out, say ur busy or give it a brake and then see how you feel....i am going through the same thing
i wood leave this girl...if u cant stand her then walk away..shes not worth it.
Omg!!Ethical??move on with your life girl!I know you totally love her but try hanging out with other people .That way maybe she'll realize that she was wrong!
Ethnical? LOL





If you can't stand her, don't hang around her. Simple.
Have a break from her, like they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.
its a good thing that's she immature...sort of cause her being immature just makes her different from everybody else....your friend just sounds like she following the latest emo trend shell get over it.
if she plays the emo violin then u gotta get outta there. But if she just dresses like an emo chick and listens to emo chick, then she might stand a chance. Your friends impact the way u r and the way u act. If u cant stand her and if theres too much drama, ditch her, and find someone else. Drama is a waste of time, you will realize this when u go to college or when u mature, which ever is sooner. And if shes immature and your not, then thats a sign that you two shouldnt be hanging out together. Your not her therapist, dont try to work out her issues. Her problems are hers only to bear, not yours.
That is her and you are you..Accept her for who she is if you love her to death..We all have our faults, since none of us are perfect..
Why is she a saddist?


Do you know?


Did something happen to her?


Ask yourself that question, can you answer it?


If not, why don't you talk to her, tell her that you just don' t like it when she acts ';emo';


Maybe she just doesn't have enough self confidence.


Try rebuilding her confidence by doing stuff she loves to do, go shopping, eat out, talk about random thing, exc.


I hope this helps!!!
stop hanging out w/ her for a while until you guys miss eachother too much that you need to see her.
if she were a real friend she wouldnt act like that and maybe she changed. just move on with ur life and find a new best friend!
She's not your best friend if you have such major problems with her. If you want to still be friends with her, then you need to tell her why you have problems with her and be specific, give specific examples of the times when she got on your nerves. If she blows you off, then there is nothing you can do but to find another best friend.
i hear ya. move on. stop answering the phone. friends come and go through out your life time. no one likes a downer.
if she's bringing you down, get rid of her.
You two need some breathing space between you. Do you have any other friends you can hang with? Just distance yourself for now and see what happens.
Friends grow apart. Sometimes they also grow back together. If you need to leave her behind, that's okay. But you might want to do it in such a way that you can be friends with her again 10 years from now (if you want)