i know how you feel i had the same thing happen to me its really hard to get over itI have a problem.... can anyone give advice?
what was the situation?
try writing ur feelings in a letter and give it someone u trust to give to him 4 u
I don't know what he did, but if it made two families go into chaos, it must have been bad. He has to take the consequences. I'm assuming you're being protected for your own good. It doesn't matter if you forgave each other, the adults had to intervene and that's what they're doing. And never is a long time, you can see anyone you want when you turn 18.
Be real, and Be honest with yourself. Are you crying because you feel guilty, or do you miss him?
You guys can't see each other so, out of sight, out of mind. Pick up a hobby, hangout with friends. Or talk to someone about it. After all communication is key.
If he apologises for what he's done wrong, and you accept
his apology that will erase the hurt, in the mean time just
go on about your business, and think positive crying is only
an emotion, and a cleansing of hurt feelings, and it's normal!
but to some! it's a sign of weakness, be careful not to send
the wrong message, stop crying! it won't help. Time will heal
all wounds.
Well if he did something to you then shouldn't you be mad at him, especially if he got in trouble for it? He doesn't sound like someone worth your time.
It will definitely take time for you to get through the hurt. You may not necessarily get over it. I suggest you let your feelings out...cry. It would be a worse situation if you held those feelings inside. It helps me to write out how I feel and then rip that paper to shreds. The ripping gets out some anger and it insures that no one else will read it. Best wishes!
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