Hi i have a lil problem and i need some advice?

Well, there's this girl i like and that im friends with but i wish we were more than friends.. any way we were talkin once and i accidentally asked whether she was trying to ditch me or somethin since she had been kinda skippy lately so i thought i'd make up to it by asking her what was wrong but instead of taking it easy she totally flipped her lid and got pretty pissed caus she said i accused her of being a DITCHER.. now, since she a lil stubborn and too confident sometimes it's really hard to even apolgize to her caus she seemed pretty mad at me.. WHAT SHOULD I DO? i know its just a silly argument but its much more complicated believe me.. PLEASE give me some advice on thisHi i have a lil problem and i need some advice?
I know this may seem incredibly strange coming from a female, but women are *always* right. We may not be right in the actual sense, but since we usually feel this way, it's best to approach the situation with an apology and an admission to your 'wrong'. Be sincere about it and it's quite likely she'll come around :).





A treat to lunch could possibly help soften the situation somewhat.





Take care and good luck :D.Hi i have a lil problem and i need some advice?
Get her a apology card. Then get an index card. Cut the index card into the shape of a hand, and right on it ';Good for one free slap.'; Put the index card in the other card and give it to her.





Either she'll laugh, which always helps problems to be resolved.


Or she will slap you, which will make her feel a little better, which might also help the problem to be resolved.





Then, hopefully she'll let you get a couple words in edgewise, and you can say ';I'm sorry for accusing you of being a ditcher. Please understand, I was just insecure.'; or something similar.





Then, play be ear. Might take a little time for it to resolve still, but my experience has shown me those who anger quickly usually forgive pretty quickly, too.





After that, put insecurity aside, and tell her your feelings. Sure, you might still be rejected. Then again, you might not. Love is a risky game.





Good luck!
SEnd her an email or a card and apolligize. ask or write in the card to meet u some place and tell her your feelings toward her.