I have a problem n i need ADVICE!!! HELP PLEASE!!!?

i was n a relationship with this guy for a year. and just in august i broke up with him because of his bad attitude!!! then when we was going to work it out he calls me and say '; as far as us getting back 2gether it's not going to happen';. then he tells me that he didn't physically cheat on me but he cheated. now after that we became friends but its like were still together cause u kno we do things like we still are. plus we still love each other to death!!!





but im startin to like this other guy and i think it will get serious between us. i don't kno what to do because 1 part of me still love and want to be with him but the other wants to move on!!!





WHAT SHOULD I DO?I have a problem n i need ADVICE!!! HELP PLEASE!!!?
let that old thing go once he cheats adn lies and has a bad attitude its not going to change





dont stop at one aguy and settle for less


i had the same situation when i was 16 i


fell in love with this guy he was a total jerk


then he ';changed'; and it seemed all


good but i knew damn well it wastn


i felt happy at times but i could remember


all the horrible times a lot clearer, we broke up


but never stayed away from eachother


i wasnt able to talk to any other guys b


cause hed act like a damn fool


and eventually it was all hell


i was 19 when we got married


and it got worst...





nothing will change let that old thing go


its ot worth it


adn you know its not thats why


you are here askin us what to do


you know what you really want nad


you want reassurance that its okay to feel


that way and it is!!


absolutely





i wish i would have known, now im preg


and feel more trapped then ever,


even though i know im literally not, but


emotionally i amI have a problem n i need ADVICE!!! HELP PLEASE!!!?
move on! if you go back you goin to have to deal with the same crap as before and yea maybe it will start off good for a while but it will always end up the same if you like this new dude he treats you right makes you happy and you see it goin somewhere its always better to move foward life moves too fast to throw the ride in reverse
That is why young relationships for more than a few weeks are not likely to be successful. You are still in the tricky process of establishing your own identity. It is doubly hard when you have another's identity smuched in there too.





If you sleep on it for a weekend you will forget the old guy. Go for the new guy. Never fight in any relationship. Why waste a minute of the fun you could be having? There are lots of fish in the sea.


Life is your oyster.


Don't let the smucko's jerk you around. Right?
move on, the other guy sounds mean
MOVE ON!!!!, God is showing you another road, and probably a better one, now is your turn to get back at him, your current friend or boyfriend just wants to !@#$ you, sorry for saying it like that, I just don't like it when guys take advantage of nice girls, hey it happened to me.
You know, I hear this a great deal. A couple breaks up and then they want to get back together but the problems that broke them up are still there and they are not really trying to fix them. They just think all those problems will magically go away. Doesn't happen.





You need to take a step back and look at this relationship as though you are on the outside looking in. You say you broke up with him because of his bad attitude. Has that bad attitude mysteriously gone away and been replaced by a more acceptable attitude?





He says he cheated on you, but he did not physically cheat? What does that mean? Does he have feelings for someone else? Why did that happen if you were together.





You have some big issues here. You need to really think about why you two split in the first place and honestly ask yourself if it's going to be any better if you get back together.





Love is blind, so take the blinders off and what do you see? That will be your answer.
Wasn't it he who said you two getting back together was never going to happen? Ok so you can't spend your life sleeping with a guy who doesn't want to commit. Let him go, keep him as friend ONLY and move on in the direction of this new interest.