I have two roommates and both are international students. The problem is, I can鈥檛 get along with one of the guys. This guy is I think a nice guy, but he often doesn鈥檛 understand my English. So I really have difficulty communicating with him. I mean I can talk to him but I have to speak so slowly to make sense for him. Well..must speak English slowly is maybe ok. The main problem is, he starts arguing with me when he didn鈥檛 understand what I said. And finally he tries to make me look stupid. Since both of my roommates get along with each other, I can鈥檛 get along with the other guy either. So I鈥檓 always alone in our house. I just stay in my room and do some homework. That鈥檚 it. I can鈥檛 even watch TV with them. In fact, my school life is pretty much perfect. There鈥檙e lots of friends at school who I can get along with and hang out with. But when I get home, it鈥檚 just terrible. I鈥檓 not sure they are doing this, but I feel like they are speaking evil of me all the time in the living room.A roommate problem. Give me some advice, please(btw I have to stay with these two guys at least 10 more month)
report them to the authoritiesA roommate problem. Give me some advice, please(btw I have to stay with these two guys at least 10 more month)
Well to make the situation better u need to confront the both of them. Maybe u should try and learn the language that he speaks. I mean how do u think he feels. It's hard as it is to move from home and learn new customs and a new language. Be patient. Do u ever go to the living and sit with them? Well I hope that everything goes well!
I was in a simalar situation. Just tough it out. Or you could try to reconsile with them and explain that you're feeling wierd about things.
Or you could get a subleaser and move the fcuk out.
I really don't know what to tell you on this one, but if i was in your situation I guess I wouldn't spend that much of my time at home. I would spend most of my time at a friends house or something.
You need to try and get along with them, I know it could be hard, maybe you should try and find a new place to live. If you dont believe you can. Its your house to so there for you shouldnt be locked up in your room, you should be able to watch tv, go to the kitchen whenever you like. Just start hanging around with them more, even if you feel unwonted maybe it help you all get used to each other more.. Good luck to you.
Well if they can read english or something start writing them notes and they can probably write them back too so you guys can understand each other better. If not at least try learning their language so you know if they really are talking about you or something. Either way they can't be too pissed if you are trying to actually communicate with them.
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