Girl answers only please! I need some advice about this virginity problem...?

Ok.. so i know that i am ready physically and mentaly to have a sexual intercourse.. i am 17 going on 18 and i've been thinking about sex for a while , everything seems perfect , i have the guy , the place etc.. but everytime i decide to do it i get scared that it will hurt too much, i dont want any '; if you think it will hurt youre not ready'; comments because i know i am ready and in love head over heels. I just want to know if it hurts THAT much. Thanks :)Girl answers only please! I need some advice about this virginity problem...?
Every girl is different. It didn't hurt me that much my first time. And it only ';hurt'; for a few seconds. Seriously it's not that bad. Just don't think about the pain, think of how wonderful it's going to be. Try to be spontaneous about it too. That makes your fear go away.Girl answers only please! I need some advice about this virginity problem...?
I'm 17 and just lost my virginity (really JUST haha a week or so ago)


it hurt a bit at the beginning i had to make him stop..but i dont think it usually hurts that much my bfs just big haha.


but yeah dont let the pain stop you cuz it really isnt that bad at all just for like 2 seconds then no pain whatsoever
@Mina:is being a virgin so bad.


well, young dudes in teenage early 20s, are always hungry for sex, i would say u can wait, otherwise u may have problems.


uk and usa go the highest rates of sudden pregnancies and its like 5x% of teenage girls (which is some how high ratio) not to turn you down, i would recomend wait till u find a serious realtionship or marrage, cuz guys/girls in teenage are really turned on 24h/day lol.
it is scary the first time because there is always so many mixed messages about it, the first time isn't usually the best but its not terrible, just make sure he goes slowly and make sure your lubricated enough, that way it is much less painful, there may also be a bit of blood nothing major just a speck or two. x
Honestly, It doesn't hurt THAT much. The next day you will find yourself feeling sore but not in severe pain or anything crazy. If you are almost 18, I'm sure you can handle it. Plus you will have so many emotions and thoughts going through your head, I wouldn't let the pain get to you. Good luck.
haha! i just lost mine 2 days ago. I just turned 17. My man was so sweet about it and i hope yours will be to. Mama, pshhh i cant tell you how much it hurt me but he would go slow and ask me if i would let him go a little faster or wanted him to go slower. it was so beautiful. Make sure he goes at your pace. Youll be fine!
Well, I'm sorry to say that it is painful and you will feel sore afterwards. But it will depend on the guy. If he's gentle then it will be less painful, make sure you tell him to take it nice and slow.





Another key is the more aroused you are the less it will hurt
It doesn't matter if or how much it hurts, the question is, are you willing to die a virgin in order to avoid a pain that you know is not even going to outlast a bee sting? Putting it off changes nothing but lets the fear build.
Honestly it's going to hurt because it is your first time. But it will be a good kind of hurt. If you feel that you're absolutely ready then I say go for it. It's going to be painful but after your first time you will begin to enjoy it.
it doesnt hurt THAT much but it does hurt. you'll be a virgin all ur life if u r afraid of the pain. Just do it the pleasure will outrule the pain.
it all depends on the person.


i have a high pain tolerance, so it was easy to overcome the pain at first, then it's starts to feel great. haha.
I know how you feel Its sorta like a pinch it hurts a little but it feels way good Just Relax itll be fine as long as your all protected! Hope I helped X
As long as your calm and relaxed, it wont hurt much at all.


If any.


Mine didnt.


Just dont tense up


Good luck.
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