Help! Guy problem at work need Advice Big Time?

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Guy at work comes on to me SUPER strong, comes up w/ elaborate great ideas of where we should go on a date outside of work. BUT he never follows through w/ the date. He know's I like him definitely, I know he likes me..He gives vague answers as to when we will hang out..What's his deal? He doesn't seem shy? Why does he bother coming on to me so strong and


coming up w/ these great dates, when he doesn't follow through??


HELP PLEASE! totally frustrated.Help! Guy problem at work need Advice Big Time?
#1 He might be married,#2 he is a virgin,#3 he could be just a talker and has a small penis. Last of all he is broke!This is what you could do, is call his bluff and tell him you would like to go some where, and see if he will take you. If this does not work then you become the aggeser and ask him out. I hope you understand where i am coming from.Myself i do not bullshit around, you want to go out lets go life is to short to waiting around. That's what happens people wait around and then later, they end up saying, i wish i could of or should of but did'nt. Be the aggeser and tell him **** or get off the pot!!!Help! Guy problem at work need Advice Big Time?
Maybe this guy is just a flirt, or maybe he's married and can only play like he's mr. cool when he's at work! if he comes up with another suggestion and does'nt deliver then put and end to his games and tell him forget it or prove himself real!
tell him you want to MEET him at a bar/restaurant/club, or wherever. make definate plans. tell him you have reservations, etc. if he stands you up, tell him to take a hike.


the other nice thing about meeting him, instead of him picking you up, is that there is less pressure at the end of the date...
Maybe he's realizing something you should realize...don't cr@p where you eat. Romance at the workplace isn't a thing that anyone should do because it just complicates things when it doesn't work out or when you get into the normal lover's quarrels.
If you have committed to a date and the plans were clear and he is breaking the dates he is just playing you, if not, you need to take the reigns and finalize the plans, maybe he is thinking the same about you!
Don't date at work
call him on it... next time he comes up with something say ';that sounds great, lets go tonight right afterwork'; then you'll know if he is just bsing or really wants to date you.
i hate to tell you but i think that he has no attentions of going out with you no offense it sounds like he is involved with someone else and is just flirting with you i would confront him