ok, so therez this guy in highschool (im in jr. high) that really likes me and i really like him...........i wana date him soooooooooooooo bad but somehow my mom found out dat hez 16 and said im not alowed to talk to him nemore....however we still talk on myspace sometimes. what do i do?I gotta problem and i need advice asap.......please help?
ask him outI gotta problem and i need advice asap.......please help?
You really should listen to your mom. She only makes rules like that because she cares about you. In your question you didn't say how old you are, so I'm not really sure how big the age gap is, but when your young even 2 years can make a huge difference. 16 year olds are doing different things than 14 year old are. What you want out of a boyfriend may be completely different than what he expects from his girlfriend. Wait until you get to high school %26amp; then maybe your mom will be alright with you dating someone a few years older.
I don't think that it's smart to sneak around behind your mom's back, but no one can tell you what to do. Just try to use good judgement.
Talk to your mother and tell her that you are going to be mature and responsible about dating him. Be honest and truthful, maybe even have him meet her. If you're smart and CALM and mature about it, your mother will respect you and probably let you date him.
Good luck!
No one likes to here this but, Moms right. Granted, Moms can be over protective and they don't always have all the facts before they lay down the law, but heres what she sees that maybe you don't: Why would a 16 year old to be dating a much younger girl? Simple answer, because you don't have enough experience yet to know trouble when you see it and he's betting he can take advantage of helping you gain that experience a little sooner then is necessary. If it's really important that you see him, see if you can go on a supervised date until Mom feels comfortable that this older boy isn't trying to get you into some kind of trouble. Otherwise, stick to boys you own age a little while longer. Yes, there immature, but you can have fun with that too. Make them earn attention.
Respect your mother's wishes, you're too young to be dating guys in high school.
Listen to mom. Respect her wishes...you'll have many years to screw up when you are without parental support learn something while being under their guidance, love and protection. It's called preserving your integrity.
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