I hate having older guys look at me. any advice on solving this problem?

ok so im almost 14 and i look more like im 15 or 16. I get toldt his way to much, and get attention from older guys. its confusing because they want attention back, and they'll flirt with me which makes me uncomfortable. i even get uncomfortable when i get looked at. im really shy and dont know what to do. i dont dress older than i am . help!





i'd really apricate any tips:D thanks





oh and btw.. its not because i dress slutty or anything. :S i guess its just my face that looks a little more mature idk. I just dont feel very comfortable right nowI hate having older guys look at me. any advice on solving this problem?
hey, i know what your going threw.


my first year in high school know one believed that i was only 15. every one thought i was at least 17. i thought it was nice of people to say things like this, but it gets old, and can feel very uncomfortable.





its something you just get use to. don't let it bother you, and just tell the guy that it flirting with you that your only 14.





good luck :)I hate having older guys look at me. any advice on solving this problem?
Um I'm like 15 and I've been getting told that I look 17 since I was 13. My mom says that its not that you dress or act those ages, it's your maturity level and that you carry yourself like a young lady.


Don't worry I get it all the time, just say that you're jail bate lol. It helps me feel better. Oh and look at them like they're crazy, they'll get the hint. Hope I helped.
if you don't show any attention toward them, they should leave you alone. avoiding eye contact is the biggest thing - if you don't look at them, it gives them no opportunity to come up and talk to you. less makeup (if you wear any) might also help. and, if they do come up and give you attention, just give a small smile and walk away. no need for anything else.
Don't be flirty back. Ovoid eye contact and don't carry on a conversation with them. They'll get the hint.
You can't change the behaviour of others, only your own. Just ignore them if they look at you and don't flirt back!