Wednesday, December 23, 2009

I have a problem and need some advice!?

ok so i am going to give you the situtation. there is this girl and i like her a lot, and she likes me too. So i was at her house the other night and we were watching a move, and she got cold so i was cuddling with her and stuff to warm her up... after a while we some how started to kiss, this lasted for like a half an hour, it was a good night.... but here is the problem, she is my recent ex-girlfriends best friend, and a girl my best friend has liked for forever... i don't know what to do and any advice would be great.... thanksI have a problem and need some advice!?
Alright there are a couple of things that you could do... even though your friend wouldn't care... tell him anyways. Its with the ex where it gets a little iffy....first you have to make sure that you don't have any feelings for her still, and that you aren't doing this for revenge... you need to have the girl talk to your ex and you need to talk to your ex and make sure it won't mess up anything up between your ex and the girl since they are best friends... and if there are any problems then you need to figure out what is more important to you and to the girl... maybe it is best to just stay friends... but then again it all depends on how you feel for this girl, and how she feels for you....I have a problem and need some advice!?
back off. you'll get ovr her eventually and more bad could come from it than good. just dont risk it.
So you are seeing your best friend's major crush. Ok heres the deal. You need to do one of two things. You can tell your best friend before he finds out or stop talking to this girl. You have to decided what is more important to you. This girl or your best friends, From expereince girls/guys come and go. Best friends are forever.
The two of them are different.Go SLOW with the new one.


Ask her to keep your relationship private,NOT to talk about it to the ex.
as far as her being friends with your ex. so what. but being that your best friend has liked her forever should make her off limits to you unless of course you get your best friends blessing. you have already disrespected his friendship by kissing his crush so i would talk to him quickly. ask if he is ok with you going for her since they obviously aren't going to get together
with the ex girlfriend factor and your best friend likes her -- all being a factor -- even though you probably don't want to - you should stay away
well if ur still friends with ur ex....dont do it.....but if ur not and the girl dont have a problem .....GO FOR IT......but it all depends if u broke up with her or she broke up with u......
you're in some dangerous territory right now... it would be best to back off before you're in too deep, alot of people could get hurt in this situation
if she likes you then u have nothing to worry about, if u think she might be cheating, ask her but in a polite not straight up way. If you find out she is, then break up. Theres plently of people out there
First of all you know you wrong for that! It's guys like you who were deep asleep when God was giving out COMMON SENSE! If you really like this girl, then for one, you should like her enough, not to mess up her friendship, with her best friend, and for two, she should like her best friend enough not to even have you over at her house without the best friend knowing. But then again you both kissed, which means you're both trifling, karma is a MF, you'll both get what is coming to you! You probably deserve each other!





P.S: I don't know this girl..I'm just Anti-Trifling!





Tootles!
do it like that song says ';listen to you heart'; lol
thats a decision only you and the girl can make
all`s fair in love and war.
I understand that you like this girl, but if you're willing to lose a friend then keep it going. But if you want to stay loyal and true I believe you should tell her that you can only be friends because if ya'll pursue this ya'll will hurt two people in the process.
tell him u like her n ask if its ok to go out with her. it's a different story if u n ur friend were women cause women take it more seriously about their friend going out with their ex.
do you honestly like her, or is she just some girl who you caught off the rebound... if you like her go for it
I'd just go for it. Ask her out. It doesn't matter about the ex-girlfriend, because she is your EX. You just happen to be moving on with her best friend. Just as long as you don't come in between their friendship. I think it'd be fine.

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