I really really need some advice with this huge problem?

So this girl that i like and likes me back ditched yesterday and her dad found out and now he is all pissed. We were supposed to go on our first date on friday and now he sent me a text saying i have made a bad first impression and she is grounded and i shouldn't try to contact her, etc. I think he took her phone b/c he texted me from hers. So does this mean he doesn't want us to date? Or is he just pissed?





P.S. I sent him a text saying he was right it was a mistake, it wont happen again. and if he doesn't want me to date her i will have to respect his opinion. And he hasn't said anything to that. :(I really really need some advice with this huge problem?
he didn't respond cause that was a statement.and not a question. not all statements get a response especially since you told him what he wanted to hear.I really really need some advice with this huge problem?
i would say it could go either way... yea hes definetly pissed so right now he doesnt want you to date her but it could possibly change try to find a way to make up for it to proove that your not the bad influence that your actually a good person and he might change his mind and let you go on a date with her. be really respectful and if this dont help then try talking to her and ask her what she thinks you should do
aww im sorry dude :( sounds so sad, must be tough, but the dad might just be a little pissy. if you see ur gf again tell her to act all sad around her dad and make her dad feel bad that he's keeping you 2 apart....and if that doesnt work tell your girl to apologise to her dad too, say it wont happen again. be very respectful.
Get your girlfriend to persuade her dad to have a talk together.





Wear decent clothes. Don't swear. Smile, be polite - AGREE with everything he says!


If he asks why you like her, say she's funny and great to talk to and what you admire about her etc.
the mistake was you saying if you dont want me to date your daughter i will respect your opinion.Now it seems like you wouldn't fight for his daughter and will quickly give her up if you both run into to trouble.
Sounds like it could be heat of the moment, and he may cool in a few days. I think you did the right thing, from your response, you do seem like a nice guy and its possible he may give you another chance.
he shouldn't be mad at you he should be mad at her for ditching first of all. Yeah i guess he's just pissed she prolly nvr did tht be4. but you could always make it up dnt be scared to try(:
omg that seriously sucks!


he obviously doesn't want you and her to hook up.


i wish i could help you.


:(
why would you say something so stupid?
In my opinion, you did not have to send any tex to her father, he is not the one you are dating. I really hate when family get involves in their children's business. You don't have to respect his opinion, are you dating her. Have a talk to her instead and get this matter straight. I know how you feel because I went through the same problem. I had a boyfriend once and their family made him break with me. Today he is sorry for the decision he made. I don't know how old she is, maybe that could be the problem. I think you should talk to her.
The reason for the father's delay in your last text, is because he is thinking about giving you a second chance, realizing young people make mistakes as they grow. as far as him being angry, I am sure he is, just let things simmer down, and if you don't go on your date Friday, then plan it for another time, as long as the father don't have a problem with it. I too as a parent would be ticked off if my daughter skipped school, and I would ground her as well, no matter what type of plan she had scheduled... Just give it time, and don't do it again, hopefully you have learned something from this.