Please advice me on this friend problem..how to get a life?

i had a friend called murali..wee were good friends for 5 years but as his frinds netwrk grew and became more succeful he started ignoring me and avoiding me..i was in depression for a year..and i've let him go..but still sometimes i tend to hook on him and my mood gets spoilt..plss advice me..Please advice me on this friend problem..how to get a life?
It would be too presumptuous on my part to tender any advice.But I would sincerely suggest that you learn to wipe off this bad experience from the slate and start afresh.The world is full of guys like Murali who allow some success to go to their heads and have no regard or respect for the values of friendship.Such people learn their lesson to their dismay a little too late in life.You should not allow his treatment of you to affect your moods unless you are jealous of his rise in status


which,I am sure that you are not.Forget him for now and get on with advancing your career.Who knows,you too may one day get a chance to snub him.But it is at that time you should treat him with such grace and charm that he will be shamed into realising what a lout he had been towards you.Cheer up,man.Move on with your life.You shouldn't allow such bagatelles to overcome and overwhelm you.There are much


greater challenges in life to be faced for which you need total clarity of


mind.Good Luck.Please advice me on this friend problem..how to get a life?
it is normal to still feel that way. but if they didnt treat you very nice by ignoring and avoiding you, then just remeber that they wernt such a good friend after all. ever tho i guess everything was ok for that 5 years you guys were friends, people change, some people change for the better and some change to worse. when ever you think of him just think of the good things that happend becauase you guys arnt friends anymore, like maybe he was annoying sometimes or he did something you didnt like. or just take it as a life experience, and now you know. i had a friend for about 5 years too, then she became pretty horrible so i stoped being friends with her. for the first couple of months i was kinda bumbed, because we did have a lot of good times together, but then i knew that my life is very much better without her in it, and all the horrible stupid things she did to me, i take it as a life experience, and now i know just that much more about people.
This may happen if he has a lot of stress on his mind. Try to support him. You could tell him that your there is he needs you. And also try to find other friends to hang out with. You can still call him and talk to him. But maybe he felt that he was loosing you too. Try to be there when he needs it. Hope this helps you. :)








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wen u adress sum1 as ur true friend,u tend to get emotionally attached to them.....ur heart searches fr them weneva u need help....but sumtimes that true frnd needs space,wants to reach out to new people.....its nt that he has left u behind but its u who has fixed feet.....interact wid people ,make new friends n gradually u wil b able to get over it..might b ur frnd isnt avoidin bt is too buzy to tak...
Just get over him he obviously wasn't a good friend to ditch you like that so you shouldn't want him back as a friend