Im weak .. im confused .. and i need advice on this annoyin problem?

been with a guy for 3 years . seems like a long time .





i have fun with him we have good times and were in love but





we've broken up 10times


his run off with girls and cheated on me twice


he calls me names ,ignores me , and he ...hit me twice .





am not those type of girls who cheats or does anything bad , i just want a healthy relationship that's all. and crying every night is not healthy at all


i just turned 18 im to young to be going through all this..





here's the thing that annoys me. i broke up with him . last week ive been happy . but then he comes up to me and txts me saying his sorry and he's just crying uncontrollably . should i give it another try or just quit being a whip and stay strong and forget about him?








sorry if this sounds annoyin cuz it isIm weak .. im confused .. and i need advice on this annoyin problem?
Wow ia m in the same situation but i ahve two babies. My ex hit me on and off for 5 years and quit for 2 years but recently hit me again so I left!! When I was younger he did the same **** to me that your ex is doing to you. We broke up all the time, he cheated on me with who ever and then when I would leave him he would cry and cry and say sorry. I am telling to get out now. I have two babies I have to take care of alone now. Dont get me wrong I love my kids and I am thankful for them but I am only 22. Just ignore the crying, think about everything he has put you threw not what you did or say to him! stay strong hun, you have your hole life ahead of you!!Im weak .. im confused .. and i need advice on this annoyin problem?
Its up to you. I don't think any one on this website can really give you a definite answer considering we don't know everything about the situation. I would say do what you feel is right. If you think you are too young to go through that kind of pain then I would suggest you move on and enjoy a life, but if you really care for him and believe that he is sincere in his apology then I would say take him back. The choice is up to you.
i know its hard but just forget him.


if you love him very much than fair enough be with him.


But don't let him treat you like that. obviously if your a good girlfriend and he is sometimes a bad boyfriend then he doesn't deserve you. the reason why he is crying now, is because he probably realized how lucky he was to have you. just try and move on and find someone thats good for you. good luck
The best thing for these situations is time. because of everything that has happened between you two you both should definitely take some time alone. Just be honest with each other. You both are very emotional and need some time to cool down and really think about everything that happened before you start dating again. If you jump back into a relationship right away the same thing will keep having over and over again.
Should you give it another try??!!





Should you be cheated on, hit, called names, ignored, cry every night,totally upset, and break up again for the 11 time??? What do you think??!!!





And your only 18. That is enough abuse for a life time. Move on and find someone who deserves you. You must break this pattern, and look for a different type of person.
Listen girl you gotto straighten him up dont let him treat you lyk that so wat if he's a boy if he aint ryt for you then leave him find someone else and be happy for the chossen one. pick the ryt person not someone who you think might cheat on you and all those things :) advice from an 11 year old sry if my age is to young but i really lyk to help people.
MAIN POINTS: HE HIT YOU!!!!(KEEP IN MIND) no man should hit a woman much less a SECOND time. HE CHEATED on you twice.(think hard) you didnt really do anything about it. ITS time to wipe out those tears and know that now you are 18 and theres is a whirlpool of men out there willing to out with you so forget that dumb f**k. Good luck, I know it wont be easy
well i think its not right to go back with him, he caused u a lot of pain and it looks like from the cheating that he's not taking your relationship with him seriously. find a guy thats more honest with you than he is. if u want to go back with him have a talk with him that you are serious about this relationship
delete his number. delete all things he's in.


He doesn't deserve you. Don't go back out with him.


He isn't crying uncontrollably...probably the girl he cheated with dumped him and he thinks that you'll go back out with him again cuz you did that 10 times.





Don't go back out with him.
I'm the same age as you, if a guy cheated on me, i would dump him in a second. If a guy hit me, i would call the police on his ***, then ask my bro and his friends to give him a lesson.


Forget him, you need to find a guy that respects you and relationships.
You did the right thing by breaking it off with this monster. Don't go back, don't ever consider it. He'll cry and apologize and beg you to come back. But after the newness wears off for him, he'll be back to the same controlling, violent, cheating jerk. Been there done that, not something I recommend anyone to do. Run like you a** is on fire.
Sweetheart this is not love. A real man will treat you like a queen.He will make you the one and only! He's out there. Don't feel bad, i'm looking for just the right lady myself. Have a great day. Ever get to vegas give me a e-mail and i'll show you around. take care, Rich.
With the risk of sounding patronising.....





I think you ARE too young to be going through this. You're 18, your life has just started, get rid of him, be strong





go out, enjoy yourself %26amp; when you are ready, find a man that is going to treat you how you deserve to be treated.





Good Luck


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you neeeed to be strong now. youve delt with his crap and nowits your turn. you cant have someone like that in your life. stand up for yourself now and take this time to hang with your friends and focus on yourself, then you will find someone better. you can do it girl!!!! =]
yeah if i were you i would just drop him because if you don't he'll get the idea that he can do whatever he wants and he'll think that you won't leave him if he does so he'll just keep doing it.











find someone else.
hes obviously a complete *** to be treating you like that





move on, maybe you need a clean slate and start dating other people, then youll know if hes the one you REALLY want.





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If he is really sorry give him one last chance. If he does it again then break up with him for good. But you have to let him know what he is doing is wrong and tell him that this is his last chance.
As many times as he has made the mistake of taking you for granted have you considered that each time you take him back just gives him the go ahead to do it again?
DO NOT go back out with him. No one deserves what he has done to you. Stay strong and walk away. Like a song I like says, ';Take your heart and run!!';
Don't fall into the trap he has created. Just give up. You will probably never be happy together. Get a fresh start without him breathing down your neck.
Just leave him alone. You both are not in love.


He is not worth it. Dont put yourself thru this.


If your happy now than tell him to leave you


alone. Good luck
No he has had other tries hes gonna do the same thing all over guys like this just never change and you deserve to be happy there is much more out there in life whats so special about him
i'll slap ya if you get back with him.


don't be an idiot.


he's saying he's sorry just so he can have you in his control again.
don't be stupid you need to get away from him he does not care for you at all. if he did he would not have cheated on you and hit you. GET AWAY!!!!!!!
it's all up to you sweetie you decide after all it's your happiness
stay away from him. he's not worth you time or tears
i think u should give him 1 more chance but make sure to tell him so


in my opinion this has to stop and you should be stronger than that!


when your showing him ur weakness, hes taking advantage of that!


gd luck :)
HE HIT YOU??!!?? DUMP HIS ***!
sounds to me like you need a completely different hobby... this one sounds crap.
give it a long long break...
dude if he hits you obviously u shouldnt be with the guy!