Advice, 2 cents worth. guy problem?

I loved him 2 years ago but because he thinks highly of social status, he got intimidated and thought he'll never be good enough for me. I tried my best to persuade him that status doesn't count. To sum it all up, I eventually let go of the idea and moved on. We didn't have any communication whatsoever and now he's courting me. Before that I'm single now by choice. A career woman. I'm really busy right now because of my new job and tons of responsibilities. Dating never crossed my mind and I'm really focused on excelling. The thing is, he's persisting that I should reconsider. I told him a million times that it doesn't work that way! It's not just that I'm busy but there are no guarantee that I would feel the same way before. I'm getting really angry because everytime he calls me he would cry (as if someone died). I'm not into ego-tripping or beating around the bush. I told him I'm not interested but still he insists on dropping by my place of work so we could talk. continued..Advice, 2 cents worth. guy problem?
Well, if a guy begs and cries before you, he really is telling something to you, that he is still a guy, not a MAN.


You need a real man in your life to take charge of responsibilities not someone who finds your shoulder to cry when things seems tough.


However, I won't suggest you to blast him out. You may inform him that you are seeing someone else and you like him. He would understand and leave.Advice, 2 cents worth. guy problem?
you have to be more persistent. tell him, in no uncertain words, that you have been there and done that, and now you don't have time to play his games. He cries to make you feel sorry for him, and i would bet that his tears are not real! you have a successful life, so don't ruin it with this guy!