Advice needed.....please help (guy problem)?

There is this guy my best friend likes and he asked he out and I dont know what to do...Say yes or no But I think I am falling for him!!!!!Advice needed.....please help (guy problem)?
So if your falling for him say yes and see how it goes!





You might end up to regret not saying yes later... you will always wonder ';what if';Advice needed.....please help (guy problem)?
I think you should say no. You can still be friends with him, that way you can get a feel for how much your'e really into him, without hurting your friends feelings. If she's not that good of a friend, and you wouldnt mind completely ruining the relationship then it probably be ok for you to say yes.





I think be honest with both of them, tell her what happened, but that you'd rather be her friend because you know she'll always be there , and he may end up not being what you expected. And tell him that although your really interested in him, now isn't the best time. If hes really into you, he'll accept the answer and you can still all be cool with each other.
just you know tell your friend that the boy you like asked me out and im fallin for him and i just wanted to know if i sed yes would you get mad.





because you know what i luv my best friend she's more like a sister to me and i would never let some link just come between us no matter how much i liked him, but then again it depends if your really tight with you best friend because if you are take in consideration that she likes him to and to make it alot easier see if he likes her before you date him this would let your best friend know what he thinks of her
Okay. I went through the exact same thing. I ended up dating the guy she liked (she had a boyfriend, so it was weird anyways) and things are still great with us. You need to think about all the variables though. First, how do you think she'll react? That was the hardest part for me. It hurt me to not tell her, but once I did I didn't regret it. She was very upset, but she also knew that we were a great couple and that she would never have a chance with him. She wanted me to be happy and she knew that we were always going to be best friends and that this wouldn't affect us in the long run. Second, is this guy worth it? Do you see yourself in a long term relationship that will eventually grow on her or just a fling that will tear her to pieces? I knew that I had to be with my boyfriend, I would never have acted on it had I thought it was going to be a short fling.





You need to do what feels right. I would say no if you're in middle school because chances are you won't be with this guy for too long. You should really talk to your friend first though before answering him. You don't have to ask her for her permission, but just let her know that you think this could be a legitimate thing. Good luck!!
Four stages for healthy relationships;





1st Superficial- Hi and bye-no feelings for this person


2nd companionship- ';Let's have lunch- no ties afterwards, just a good meal or a movie';





3rd friendship- 'let's be around a each other just because we enjoy each other';


and 4th romantic relationship-





There is nothing like being with someone you can get along with greatly. My wife and I where friends for years and we get along in our marriage. We laugh, goof off, take online dancing lessons. IT's GREAT!
If you really like him then go out with him. However be prepared to have a very upset best friend. Make sure you are prepared to lose this best friend as well. Trust me honey for some reason young girls get really upset about things like this. She will feel betrayed and she will feel you did it simply because she liked him. You have a tough choice my friend make sure you chose wisely.
Do you like him? If so, before saying yes. Speak to your friend. Explain to her that he asked you out and that after you thought about it. You would like to go out with him. However, make it clear that friends come first. So if she feels that this would effect your friendship you will say no.
I know your situationn.


I have the same problem.


But be careful because once you guys go out your relationship will never be the same once you break up.


wait a little while until you know for sure that you like him.


Whatever you do don't break his heart because you will loose a really good best friend.
be honest with him there is no point hanging around waiting sometihng to happen you gotta ask him and you have to do it quick b4 someone else makes a move on him.
Tell your friend about it.If she understands she will let you have him.it's not your fault he likes you and not her.
you need to tell your friend what happend you may have to decide between him and her.so be ready.its not your fault he likes you better thats how things work
Say yes. You'll be happy when you do.
just confront ur friend if shes a true friend shell understand
what?
talk to your friend about how u feel first.. then see what happens