Ok..big serious problem..i need good advice?

ok, when I was in middle school I was accepted into a high school where NO ONE would know me. Well some of my friends who knew that i was a very good liar dared me to set up a whole new person that i would sort of act as. I went from preppy girl to punk/emo kind of person. I have lied about my age and where i live and my family and pretty much every aspect of my life.


It's been tough but ive kept it up for two school years and now that im maturing it doesnt seem like such a fun game anymore.





I want to get out of this whole situation but don't know how i could do it without being hated by these people ive become really close to. They are all my friends and i love them very much.


I'm just at a loss for what to do.





Please any advice would be helpful.Ok..big serious problem..i need good advice?
OK..??? look, you make them your friends, so they are your friends now friends know how to understand so dont be afraid , try to find the rigth moment to talk about it with them, so tell them the truth about you, tell them that you were childish and you were ashame of your life at that moment, so now you can see trough your self and you find out that you were wrogn, and if they could forgive you, for all the damages that you could couse to them, now on, try to tell the truth, for more painfull that could be is the best way to do it. and you will see life with diferen eyes..hope this work out for youOk..big serious problem..i need good advice?
do a cold turkey and just go back to your old self
I didnt change myself on purpose, but I used to be into the the rock scene, but I didnt necessarily grow out of it, i just changed. I still love rock and listen no matter who Im with to rock, even changed some of their opinions about it. But my friends that were still into the solid black, and general garb, called me a sellout and poser and such. But look, its not a big issue, you will especially see this after your out of high school, that what people think of you just because of how you dress, or what you like, doesn't matter. I cant wait to see everybody at my ten year reunion...i might die from laughter. I imagine they'll probably all be the same people, except like those guys you see still wearing the Zeplin shirts with a beer gut and some type of bald mullet...my point is, be who YOU want to be. If your friends care about you they wont care. And if they question you just ask them why the hell it matters. Good luck. Just be you.
It seems as though going from preppy girl to punk/emo you might have lost some opportunities and lost some of your sense of self. Get out of the situation now. You will not be hated. You need to find your true self and explore that. If you become hated by your friends now, were they ever really your friends? I am sure even if you change you still have some of the same qualities that makes you~you! Good Luck!
their not worth being your friends if they cant accept that you want to be yourself
well, in my opinoin, if the people are close to you are really your friends then they will openly exept the fact that you made a mistake. it doesnt matter what ';clique'; a person is in; they can have friends anywhere and should never be binded down.
you idiot





oh now that you put up the additional information i understand better.


YOU IDIOT