well i've been best friends with this girl since kindergarten (im 16 now). we used 2 b like sisters but a while back we drifted apart. this was my fault, lets just say i treated her badly and i admit it but ive apolagized 2 her and she says she forgives me. but for a while shes been really depressed and ive tried 2 make her feel better but it feels 2 me like shes holding what i did 2 her against me. i try 2 call her and hang out with her and stuff but she never answers my calls and never wants 2 hang out. idk what 2 do because i want her 2 feel better but it seems like she just doesnt want to be my friend anymore. it might be because of the depression but im just tired of trying. i dont want to give up on her but it seems like she just doesnt want my help. also recently shes been hanging out with this other girl but she never wants 2 hang out with me. could it be that she just found a new best friend 2 get her through her problems?? ughh idk what 2 do someone give me advice please..I have a problem %26amp; need some serious advice..(kinda long)?
Maybe she is hurt.
I have had that happen to me and it does hurt.
Just realize what you did, first.
Understand that depression definitely is upsetting and that you do need someone to be your 'comfort object'.
She wouldn't want to go back to the person that hurt her, most definitely.
Just hang in there. Show her that you're truly sorry.I have a problem %26amp; need some serious advice..(kinda long)?
i suggest you move on.
really because if you push doing something like that..you will end up more hurt because sooner or later.....she will avoid you and talk behind your back( its human nature..just for you to get off her back, people talk about you around their back..always happens).....also the problem may just be.....you
keep trying at the friendship
true friends will always be friends
remember she is go in through a tough time and little things can seem like huge things when someone is going through depression make sure you are always there for her
suicide
talk to the guidance person
move on. life is too short for such games.
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