Long relationship problem.. PLEASE HELP.Some advice would be nice.?

I've been with my girl for 6 years. Living together for 4 years and engage for 2 years. I paid for our home and everything. She's in school so she helps if I really needed her to. Very loving couple never really fight. I please her in every way if you know what I mean. I treat her like my queen .I never cheated I even gave up girls that was just my friends. I'm very good looking I'm 6'2 225 built . I tell you this cause I just do not understand women. The only reason we're not married is that she wants to get married in her country which is in South America .So to say the lest it's a lot of money to bring my family there .So we said we'll wait. Well 6 months ago I was laid of my job so I went by my family to save and get on my feet .That means I had to move to Texas .It's been really hard. I pay for her phone and I checked it out the blue. She's talking to so guys late at night lying to me of the past 6 months. I tell her about it and she says ';they are just friends and she'll stop''. I'm weeks from going back home and she's still talking to them . Lying to me. I know what I should do is just leave her . I'm in love with her . I don鈥檛 think she would sleep with anyone but I just don鈥檛 know . Please help anyone ever been in my shoes?








MikeLong relationship problem.. PLEASE HELP.Some advice would be nice.?
When suspicion is followed up by lies; that is never a good sign. Perhaps this is a test. Marriage is a really big deal, you are PROMISING her as well as GOD that you will spend your lives together as one. If one of you are not pulling you end, it will fall under. Relationships are much like a company. You both have to play your part in order to be successful. If you already discussed with her that you are uncomfortable with the late night calls and she refuses to stop, then you need to weigh your options. Being in love can blur your vision sometimes and lead you to believe what you want ....the best! However, sometimes this is not always the case. Good Luck!Long relationship problem.. PLEASE HELP.Some advice would be nice.?
you need to have a serious talk with her.





sit her down and let her know what you are feeling.





you cant just let this go on...you need to talk to her





seriously
have a serious talk.
Can't say I've been in the same situation.


But, I do have some advice. Look at the relationship. Is it maybe getting too hard? Think, then talk to her about it. Sometimes, cheating isn't just physical. Even if she's just talking to these guys; nothing necessarily sexual, they could possibley be having an emotional connection. I hate to say that, and that might not be it. But is your love really strong? Then try to work it out, and tell her the lying has to stop