Help help,girl problem i need an advice.........!!?

i saw my girlfriends pictures kissing her exboyfriend..and that has been in my head for days.. and what worries me is that she told that me what happend between them was nothing but a fling..the queston is why is she keeping them?


i dont even feel like kissng her anymore,but i really like this one, cant let her get away.


am i just too insecure or is it normal


and btw i dont feel jealous or anything i just feel that the guy is still part of her life.





thank you!Help help,girl problem i need an advice.........!!?
u should really confront her with this matter ..coz its hard if shes still meeting the guy and ur her bf.. its like shes just using u a place holder... or she doesnt want to hurt u but yeah ... if u dont want to get hurt u deserve to know the truthHelp help,girl problem i need an advice.........!!?
just ask her (calmly) why she keeps them, i dont think it was a fling but maybe she's having a bit of trouble letting go of her ex. just be there for her, be with her and show her how much of a better boyfriend you are.





maybe your girlfriend feels a bit insecure so she keeps the pictures as a reminder so tell her constantly how much you care and what her keeping the pictures mean to you. just support her and make her feel good and im sure she'll get over the pictures and get rid of them.
Ask her what he means to her.


For a fling, i dnt see why she would have them still, but like for me, when i got out of my relationship before i was with the guy im with now, it took me a wile to get over my ex, because he was such an important part of my life and i did care about him alot, and it did take me a wile to delete his piks, but im now with a guy that i love, and i dont want to be with my ex anymore, it just took some time.
Its not just a fling if its her ex boyfriend. If it was a ';fling'; it would have been with anyone. Thats what a fling is. But why would she choose her ex boyfriend for something so insignificant? Its not a fling man. It may be hard to let her go but that may be something you need to do. If not she will have ';flings'; again. I'm sorry to hear that she's doing this to you man. I hope this helps.
maybe u should talk to her about the pic's maybe jokingly so she can get rid of them..u could say '; wow u and ur x seems to be really into that kiss..i guess u have this pic to remember the moment huh?'; and then u could just be like u don't need this pic..we can make a new one me and u...
oh then go and ask her ';its just a fling then why are you keeping all that pic ';who know she may cheating you now your a boy go and ask
you should really just ask her about it..girls love that you care...and if you're somewhat ';affraid'; of loosing her...tell her that TOO! ;)) good luck
talk to her!!!! she will like it that u care!