Serious problem, please give me advice....please?

My friend has been in this relationship for 6 years now, and she isnt allowed to do anything. I dont talk to her ofter b/c she is always on lockdown by her b/f (who is like 12 yrs older). He has 2 kids (16 %26amp; 10). He doesnt want her to work, just stay home all day, she cant go out with her friends (ME). I have tried and pleaded with her to leave him but she really has NO where else to go. How can I get thru to her, how can I atleast get her out of the house? I worry and think about her all the time. Her b/f is crazy, he checks her phone and emails...doesnt let her do ANYTHING. How can you live like that? She is only 25, she needs to be with her friends. How can I help?Serious problem, please give me advice....please?
Unfortunately, there is nothing that you can do that will work. She has to be the one to realize that she can't or doesn't want to live like that.





Once she has gotten to that point (and mind you, some people take a long time to get there) and asks for your help, then (and only then) you can assist her in getting out and away from him.





Until that time, the best you can do is be there for her when she needs you.Serious problem, please give me advice....please?
by not letting go, keep on her time and time again...maybe give her some breathing room. but you need to pul her out at least for one night and really show her a good time and that there are better treating people out there! sometimes people need to be able to see the other side before their motivated to move to it!
This is the bed she made. Only she can change it, but not before she is ready
watch the movie ';saving silverman';, you will learn what to do from that movie
it sounds to me that she is afraid of this man but if she has no where else to go let her know that you got her back tell her that she is welcome to stay with you or one of your relatives or even with another friend until she is on her own two feet don't let her think that she is alone cause when ppl care about each other it's worth the fight oh if he threats her in any way she has the right to have the police involve don't let her stay there anonther day or night make it clear that she just might not make it out of the relationship without being hurt....
she's the only 1 who can pull herself out of that mess. i mean she might want to live like that. but you can bring her to ur house if she breaks up. good luck!