Really big problem and need good advice?

so me and my ex went out for 2 years and she broke up with me almost 3 months ago. for the last 3 weeks of that the time we were broken up i cut everything off with her. a couple days ago she IMed telling me its me she wants and wants to give our relationship a second chance. she said the only thing is she just wants to move slow with the whole thing bc she doesnt want to rush into a relationship with me. well the first 2 days were pretty good and last night she is telling me she doesnt know what she wants anymore. she doesnt know if she wants to be single but at the same time she feels like she had enough feeling to come back to me. right now she has so much on her her mind and cant make up her mind. i know that this is our last chance if we want something to work out between us and she knows that too. i dont want to be the one to just walk away right now but idk when she'll know what she wants. the only thing is she only started feeling different about her choice when then guy she liked while we were broken up told her that he knows what he wants and wants to go out with her. she told me that she doesnt want him. this kid is part of her group of friends and she is worried her group is going to be spilt bc things are awkward between them now. what should i do =(Really big problem and need good advice?
if someone wants to be with someone else there should never be ';time to think about what they want!';.


If they truly want to be together then they will be together without silly complications.





She sounds like she wants to be single or date other guys but she also misses your company and really cares about you too. I think she wants the best of both worlds.





You should write her an email telling her that she is really hurting you because you want nothing more than to be with her and be happy together without any other issues becoming involved.


Tell her that the ball is in her court but she needs to make a decision soon and stick to it. Its not fair for her to keep you waiting and sweating while she decides if your good enough for her.Really big problem and need good advice?
dude, you need to just sit down with her and talk this through. she needs to figure out what she wants coz its not fair to just string you along like that.





to be honest, from personal experience, situations like this never end the way you want them to. either she will string you along for too long and you will resent her for it and you will break up anyway, or it will just keep going the way it is now with both of you miserable. and whos to say that if she decides she wants you now that she wont do this again in years to come??





its probably not what you want to hear but i think you should move on.
Ok. She is being indecisive. Try not to take it out of her just yet. Give her some time, like a couple of days, and then if she is still like that, then you have to try to take it out. You cannot let her play with your feelings for too long. Meanwhile, if you want to be with her you have to prove to her one more time that it will work out. Take her out to have fun if you can. Do things that she would like to do with you, Go to the movies or a restaurant if possible. Make her feel good. That should make her think she is right to be with you.





That other guy thing? You're just going to have to try to consolate her on it. Or just try talking to the other guy and see if you can get to an ok agreement.





Advice: DO NOT get into a fight!!!!!
Warning! Warning! Warning! Danger! Danger! Danger!..You hear those sirens going off kid. Your girlfriends left you so she could go and sleep with a bunch of other dudes. She has now contracted some STDs she needs to go get tested for. Herpes, the Clap, the HIV ect..... She has been banged stupid. She is like a Zombie now, just function, and constantly craving, not brains mind you, but a big piece of tube steak. She can't get enough of it and is going to keep hunting it down until she wipes the earth clean, or gets shot thru the head because everyone knows that is the only way to kill zombies.....