Ooh, I had a co-worker like that. I called her out on her little act. You could call her out on it (not with violence) or, you can try your best to tolerate it. Sometimes ignoring her may be the best answer. Just do your job and focus on that. If she wants to act like she's in high school, let her. She'll fall on her bum by herself in the future. (karma)Please help! Problem with co-worker; need advice.?
You should tell her ';look, I don't like the way you do such and such...and neither do your coworkers'; Now you've drawn the line and put the ball in her court and she may change, may throw a tantrum, or may go to the boss, all of which is going to happen eventually. You may want to go to the boss and tell he/she that there is a problem with the new coworker that needs to be addressed before it gets out of hand and causes more problems with morale and productivity. Or else, if you can't stand up then you need to grin and bear it until it eventually comes to a head. And it will. People will take sides and all hell will break loose.
honestly its best to ignore her, no use helping someone who doesnt want it. shes doing a good job of digging her own grave no use being associated with her or her destructoveness, just ignore her and when shes ready to be normal then she'll approach you, good luck!
She is your co-worker and not your friend. You only work with her. Concentrate on doing a great job, treat everyone with respect, and ignore people who have issues. Remember, you are there to advance your career. Don't let other people rule your world.
It's hard, I know. But no one can hurt you unless you let them hurt you. You've got to simply stand up for yourself and confront her. Say, ';Listen, I need to know why you are treating me so poorly. If I've done something wrong, I need to know about it so I can apologize or correct my actions. Otherwise you need to treat me with respect.';
Take care.
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