Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Girl Problem,I really need advice.?

Kaaay,So me%26amp;my bestfriend have been in a fight for more than half the summer,%26amp;I finally had the courage to talk with her.But we can't be friends cause her parents wont ';Allow'; her.): I reaally dunno what to do,Girl Problem,I really need advice.?
Uhmm okay...What was your fight about? And WHY won't her parents allow her to be friends with you?





Maybe you can try proving yourself a better friend to her parents or just talk to your friend through internet.Girl Problem,I really need advice.?
I had that same problem once haha in 9th grade.


Sneak around! Meet up with a huge group of friends %26amp; invite her. You might even want to try talking things over with her parents, and explaining the situation.


HOWEVER, she could just be using that as an excuse not to hang out with you, and she's not over the fight.


Good luck with whatever you end up doing!
I meen if you really wanna be friends with this girl u should actually talk to her parents face to face with your friend there to support you.... so they could see how close you too really are... dont announce to the parents you will be meeting with them... suprise them or sumthing. and make sure your friend is prepared to back you up.....the same way u talked to ur friend to land u bak in good graces you should do so with the parents
same thing with my other friend here %26amp;; guess wat it all started with a


-snowball-??


anywayz..


if her parents wont allow u guys to be friend all becuz the problem is between u and her parents?? then tell them the problem is between each other %26amp;; dont let their fight blind them for their own childs happieness


or if her have sumthing agaisnt u -which would be dumb..- then talk to them..
well what did you do to have them say that? frienship is friendship, parents shouldnt be dividing that. e-mail me with what you did if you want lol. i had the same problem!
internet friends are better. they're like imaginary friends, but they can't really follow you home...





or so you think...
i got in a fight with my bff her parents hated me i told her that better be off not bff anymore and it is
Well, ask your parents if they know anything, Ask her why. I have no idea.
y wont her parents alllow her?
thats messed up, well u both shouldnt care about that if u rly wana b friends
That's a shame, bet you can't wait until you're 18 ;).





I have a few feelings on why parents make decisions like this:





1. Maybe there's more to it, maybe she blamed something on you to her parents and now they think you're a bad influence.





2. Maybe she's too afraid to say that she doesn't want to be friends anymore and is making her Mom the messenger.





3. Parents get over protective, maybe the fact that there is a boy involved at all makes them uneasy and they think you're going to influence their daughter to be sexually active.





4. The parents might actually be immature and taking this personally somehow, maybe she said that you called them a name or something.





5. It's quite possible that the parents just decided to put their foot down about something and even if they realize they're wrong and overreacted they won't admit it and back down.





Maybe you should write a letter right back and apologize for any inconvenience or drama you may have caused and that you sincerely miss your friend and just want to have her back in your life and that nothing this silly and immature will come between you two again.





Good Luck!





Thanks, TheWriter

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